Dialog - Now, this was a chick i met, that i didnt get a chance to talk to originally at any lenght. Notice how i controlled the conversation, while using her trance words to determine whats important to her.....thus making myself her dream man :)
Me: Hi baby (hi there, hello there....whatever)
Her: Hey!
Me: How are you my pet?
Her: Im fine and youself?
Me: Very good. How was work?
HER: Bla bla bla..........(i'm gonna cut the small talk)
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Her: Im tired
Me: Hmmm A massage would help wouldn't it?
Her: It sure would
Me: I charge tho. (presupposing that i will be massaging her)
Her: Giggles. What do u want? I have no money.
Me: How about you work off the payment and we'll call it even?
Her: How do you want me to work it off?
Me: I havent decided yet but i wont give you anything too hard...in fact you might like working for me.
Her: Laughing out loud (her laugh opens her up and make her vulnerable)
Me: Are you still looking to find mr romeo (getting off the subject a bit?)
Her: yep
Me: So if were to ask you....what are the requirements how would you explain them to me?
Her: There are no requirments... its just like after you stop talking to someone for a while you meet someone else and start liking them too.
Me: So if theres one thing that would really attract you to a guy, something that would make you feel that....yes i feel a connection...what would it be?
Her: Hmmmmm....his all around personality and if he's honest. That's Important!!
Me: Hmmm.......its sort of obvious and i like honesty too but have you ever wondered why its so important to you? (getting details on her values)
Her: Because i need someone i can trust and know thats he's not doing anything behind my back. (trust is another value)
Me: Yea. Its hard to trust anyone even if they say they're honest.
Me: How would you know that he is honest tho?
Her: Thats where trust comes in and right now in my life i dont know who i can trust.
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Me: Would you agree *with me* that trust has to be developed tho.....think about it ....you wouldn't trust someone you meet on the street or even someone who you barely know.
Her: I agree with you 100%
Me: Think about a time when you really trusted some. You shared your secrets, you shared your life , a common bond, you felt really open and comfortable with them etc......wasn't it a good thing?
Her: Yeah, a beautiful thing. Then they ended up hurting me.
Me: Hmmm.....i feel what your saying, so when you look back at it do you think that you could ever find a guy who would gain that trust, someone who you know would never betray that trust even after he get to be that close? [do you see how i'm getting her to *open up* to me :)]
Her: I think i will find him
Me: I know you will.....how will you determine that he is someone you can have a life with....will it be just the way you interact with him or will you just go with that feeling deep inside? (here i'm using the "either or")
Her: Both. Do u think you've found the person your going to spend the rest of your life with.
Me: I'm looking for that special woman with whom i can feel deep within me that yes this is the girl...do you sometimes have that feeling that youre looking for that special someone, someone who is so connected with you, that he makes you complete? Have you? (getting the focus off me. Keep yourself a mystry)
Her: Kinda. I'm ready to settle down with someone who is on the same page as me.
Me: So you mean someone who is willing to settle down or someone who is looking for trust?
Her: yes
Me: I see. So are you prepared to sacrifice anything?
Her: Huh? (didnt hear what i said)
Me: I have always thought that youre a sweet person.....have i been right?
Her: I'm a sweet person
Me: If there was one thing that someone would notice about you right away what would that be?
Her: I look good. Im joking.
Me: Are guys attracted to you soley because the find you sexually attractive?
Her: Yeah
Me: How do you feel about that? (notice i appeal to her FEELINGS)
Her: Not that great. Thats why my past relationships have been shit.
Me: It seem like its easy to eliminate certain guys then considering...
HerSure it isn't
Me: Well if i saw you walking by and i am attracted to you cause i think youre fine.........its ok . Its my reaction and conversation that i think will determine if i am just looking to get a booty call. Dont you agree?
Her:yeah
Me: Just talkin to you i can see your'e bigger than that you're into guys that is lookin to make a serious relationship work who can stimulate you emotionally, mentally , sexually, socially etc, isnt it?
yes: Except the sexual part.
Me: youre not into sex at all? (see what you learn from having a deep conversation)
Her: Not unless im married to him.
Me: Hmm.......interesting...so i'm assuming that youre still a virgin, right?
Her: yes
Me: really?
Her: yes
Me: Oh. is it a religious thing or is it just a personal decision?
Her: Both
Me: So let me ask you then....would you marry someone after 1 month or would it just be the thought?
Her: Bla bla bla ....the long and short of it is we went out a few times...i got into the panties after the 3rd date ....and i'm still banging her :) PS: She wasn't a virgin.
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